Husband-wife relationship should be like that

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): O mankind! Be careful of (your duty to) your Lord, Who created you from a single being and created its mate of the same (kind). And from the two of them spread out innumerable men and women. (Surat an-Nisa ': verse 1) In the

above verse, it is understood from Karima that Allah has made arrangements for procreation on earth through husband and wife. And the relationship between husband and wife is an important part of human relationships and the relationship between them is also very important.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, 'You know, you have the right over your wives. And your wives have a right over you. '

In another hadith addressed to men, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, 'Be kind to your wives.'

What will be the relationship or love of husband and wife; What will be the relationship of conjugal life; His story is reflected in the family life of the Prophet (peace be upon him) himself. Which is a role model for the Muslim Ummah.

>> The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to play with his wives. Once he ran with Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anhar and lost intentionally. A few days later, Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha lost the race again.

Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, 'O Aa'ishah! I lost you today, you couldn't be with me. This is revenge for winning the first competition.

>> The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to sit with his wives and discuss various events, stories and other matters. Even every woman would take turns telling new stories to the Prophet. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would rejoice and tell them stories.

>> Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha said, he used to smile, talk and sit with us in such a way, we did not think that he was a great messenger.

>> He never scolded his wives, scolded them and never spoke to them sarcastically. On the contrary, he used to say interesting things that filled the mind with Maya-Mamta. The attitude of his words would fill the minds of the wives.

>> The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to divert the attention of his wives from any words that contradicted his words. He loved wives very much. He would kiss them and sometimes rest his head on their thighs.

>> Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha used to drink water with her mouth in the pot, Bishwanabi also used to drink water with her mouth in that place.

Hazrat Asya (may Allah be pleased with him) used to eat gosht from the place where the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to eat gosht.

This also proves how sweet the relationship between wives was in the marital life of Bishwanabi.

>> Hazrat Ayesha Radiyallahu Anha said, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to enter the house with a very happy smile and greet with a tender voice. He did not feel bad about the bed during the rest, he even lay on the bed the way he got it.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) described the relationship between a good husband and wife and said, 'The best of you is the one who treats his wife well. I get along well with my wives.

Finally ... In
the light of Bishwanabi's conjugal life, it is understood that there is no alternative to the sweetness of husband and wife in living a happy and peaceful life. It is obligatory to follow and imitate the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to make life happy and peaceful.

In order to make the Muslim Ummah happy and peaceful for each of them, it is necessary to paint the Muslim Ummah in the same way as the married life of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

May Allaah grant Muhammad in the Ummah the Tawfeeq to build a husband-wife relationship like his. Amen.